17 Tips For Happier, Healthier Bottoming
Anal douching isn't something we talk about much in our community and we aren't given many opportunities to learn about it. My high school coach taught sex ed. He said Keep it in your pants, boys. For example, you can use a condom on the penis or your finger if you're performing anal penetration with your finger. But as arousing as it can be, many people hold back out of concern about the hygiene of anal play. Anal sex can be pretty unsanitary if you aren't cleaned back there.
Having anal sex without ensuring your back door is clean after a bowel movement, can lead to some problems, because unlike the vagina, the anal cavity is not self cleaning. While maintaining anal hygiene is important, people tend to be too fastidious when it comes to cleaning up before anal intercourse.
If you take your time with anal foreplay (fingering and rimming), your odds of enjoying it are a lot better. Relax your sphincter and push the nozzle gently a few centimetres inside. Given some adjustments here and there, the missionary position can prove to be an amazing and optimal position for anal sex.
This anal douche has a slim tip for a simple cleansing and a beaded tip for a more enjoyable cleansing experience. Deep cleaning is not without its health risks (more so than cleaning your ass with an enema) but it gets me better prepared for hours of hard sex, ass play with big toys, and fisting.
Sometimes, no matter how much you clean beforehand, right in the middle of things all that backdoor action will make you say "woah!" and run to the bathroom really fast to do some mid-sex pooping. As a partner you need to understand to give her time to clean her inside, it might take at least 15 minutes for her to make sure that no matter how deep you penetrate her, all will be fine and nothing will come out as you pull out.
Richel,, De Vries, H. J. C., Dijkgraaf, M. G. W., Van Noesel, C. J. M. & Prins, J. M. Risk Factors for the Presence of Anal Intraepithelial Neoplasia in HIV+ Men Who Have Sex with Men. She is preparing for anal sex with a butt plug as she gives a blowjob. The funny thing is that anal sex serves as kind of a threshold and basis for one's sexual experiences.
Finally, some people think condoms aren't necessary if both partners are HIV-positive. Feeling clean is one of the keys to being relaxed and at ease while having anal sex. Once you've finished your first round of anal sex, go to the bathroom and clean up. If he came inside you without a condom, you'll probably need to evacuate your rectum.
If you don't feel like you need to go to anal toys the bathroom (we're talking number two here, people), the rectum is likely empty, and you will be ready for anal sex. Once the sphincter is fully relaxed, intercourse should not be painful and stimulation of the bottom's penis will no longer cause difficulty with anoreceptive intercourse.
Some people like to shower or clean themselves before having sex, and the same principle applies for anal play. Lube makes the anus smooth and slippery, like a vagina, so that a penis can enter it more comfortably and easily. We Trans just like Gay men use the same tool to clean our inside, the main tool that we use is called Enema Douche†we use this for cleaning our lower intestine.
This means that lube is really, really important for any anal play. Like any muscle in your body, the sphincter needs to be prepared to stretch to accommodate anything coming in. My first recommendation is to usually just experiment with using some lube and a finger to start off with.